A reader asks: 

How come there isn’t a Category for “Love” or “Dating”. Some people would like to get laid more than once per year (current rate)? Sure I want more Benjamins in my wallet, but I would also like the opportunity to potentially get my [edited for content]….

It true when I first established this blog almost a year ago, I intended to answer questions on relationships as well.  Given that there wasn’t much demand for either, I decided to focus on Finances since clearly that was the more intersting subject.   It’s not like anyone wants to talk about love and sex.   However,  I will still unofficially answer question regarding to relationships.

 Dear gentle reader:

I would make the argument that putting benjamins in your wallet in the long run will also serve to your other needs.   I don’t mean to say that you should be paying for services - that takes benjamins out of your wallet.   Nor do I think women are gold diggers.   Some are as are some men.  But I do believe that women will gravitate to men who have their #$% together, and even if you don’t - having more benjamins in your wallet will at least create the illusion of that.

 -Dong